Self Love & Embodiment
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The Sexiest I’ve EVER Felt

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It’s not a diet.

It’s not a skincare regime.

Not a workout schedule.

It’s not that I’m feeling my outfit.

It’s not receiving male attention.

Not not receiving female celebration.

It’s that I have deepened my connection with my body, with my heart and with my soul.

I have welcomed in EVERY part of me.

I’ve stopped making myself wrong for feeling certain feelings and welcomed them with a huge hug, I have been unravelling all of the ways I was told as a woman, were required to be sexy.

And reconditioned what that looks like.

Reality is:

I’ve barely worn clothes this year.

My nails are natural.

My hair is wild.

I have reclaimed my body hair…

I’ve played with my conditioning and what “men want” and tried on for size, well, what do I want?


I had always had, Hollywood or Brazilian since the age of 15, repulsed by the grow-out phase, desperate to feel “clean & smooth” again.

Hair always cut and coloured…

Nails always painted & gelled.

Punishing my body with workouts & starvation.

Always trying to fit into the box I believed was deemed as “the normal”

Through rediscovering my sexuality in my Sex Love & Relationship Training with Layla Martin, and reconditioning through deeeep love & acceptance, at 30 I feel the best I’ve ever felt.

I’ve followed my body with what FEELS good.

I’ve slowed down.

Listened to my body.

I’ve played with my beliefs and tried on different aspects of my sexuality and my physical presentation and my perceptions of sexy.

The truth is, sexy is an inside job.

You can feel sexy, you can feel empowered, you can feel radiant and exude magnetism, no matter how you present yourself physically

It is in how you look after yourself your heart and your body, how you tend to your emotions & your inner world that brings confidence in sexual expression.

Knowing that it’s not in the extra 5lbs, or the perfect manicure or the smooth legs or waxed pussy, or the tightness of your abs or peachy bum… it’s so much deeper than that.

It’s much more unshakable than that.

A woman in love with herself is so radiant she can light up the room with simply the glint of worthiness in her eye.

October 15, 2021

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I see dolphins jumping in and out of the ocean when I see you, I see conch shells. I also see depth & wisdom. You are a womb oracle. The magic that you bring the the womb space, I have chills running up and down my neck right now. You take the womb and make it into its own world, where we can just crawl up inside & rediscover who we really are and that no, i’ve not met anyone else who can do that and i’ve worked with womb healers. You glow and you’re an angel and I love you dearly."

"You take the womb and make it into its own world... i’ve not met anyone else who can do that! 

- Allison

I celebrate & honour the multidimensional Priestess that lives within you, the moment that I felt you, heard you speak and every Time you step into a space I feel the mother. I honour your choice to be on this path and to share these teachings with the world. And I mother fucking love your silliness too. You are just as beautiful inside as you are radiant outside, truly. Your soul shines. I love you, sweet one."

"You carry very deep feminine wisdom & codes, beyond what you realise & know. 

- Chelsey-Jo

When I think about you I feel so much fluidity, and water and flow and life force essence, just the purest feminine energy. Pure feminine juciness. Like in ancient Hindu philosophy there's the Universe, the ether, the energy, the feminine that IS, the paradox of Kali. Kali can be both crazy & destructive but Kali can also reincarnate as this loving, giving mother, and nurturing and this very giving lover as well and you ARE that. In our womb journey healing that we did together, I mean that’s been and will continue to be a big initiation for me, that I am still getting curious about and it came up in a conversation with a client the other day, that just this intuitive knowing that black holes are the wombs of the universe, and when I said that, i only know that intuitively because I entered my womb with you and that wouldn't have happened if i hadn't met you. Thank you.."


- Julianne

People can experience being in the womb again with you, but the healed womb, going back into that amniotic sac where I can be fluid & flow and know that i'm birthing into a place that's like so cosy and warm and exciting and it's like the removal of the distortions. You have this ability of rebirth through your medicine and your heart-womb connection is like this golden liquid light and it's just so incredible and to witness the way that you hold it is inspiring. And even witnessing you move through the waves it is still so fucking potent and knowing that you always return there, it's incredible. You are the embodiment of the calm in the centre of the storm. So thank you for helping me also remember. I’m grateful to be reunited and I love you."

"You are like the love fairy, the gushy, lovey, invitational, warm honey that just wants to be poured onto the self and immersed in it!

- Kelly

"It's taken me some time to give you a testimonial because I don’t even know how to verbalise, you know! And the thing that your essence is just like so pure & your level of beauty inside & out and your wisdom and I don’t know how to say this but you’re someone I would expect to completely trigger me but with  your purity, i’ve never felt that way about you at all. I’ve always just felt so loved and in equality with you even though you are just so magnificent. You hold every aspect of the feminine all at once, every phase, and I think that’s such a huge piece of your medicine. I love you, thank you."

"I’ve always just felt so loved and in equality with you even though you are just so magnificent.

- EmmaLee

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